What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 03:59
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
My blog is new. I need 10 article posts for my blog. How much should I pay for it?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
If yes, what?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
Do you believe that it is right that one Federal judge can block a President's decisions?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Is it true that LGB should drop T?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Which branch of engineering is better: ECE or Civil?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Has anyone been spanked by their parents after becoming an adult?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
I'm British and I hate my glasses. Are prescription glasses better in New York City?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
What is the dirtiest thing you have witnessed your wife do?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
My son is possessed, now he has psychosis. Can someone help me?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Who are some good social skills therapists in Pompano Beach, Florida?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Are fanservice-y characters (i.e. Lara Croft, Tifa Lockhart) immediately bad?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Nothing too Serious
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Any that are a turn off?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
What is your favorite position? Why?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Would you read them together?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
*** Random Questions ***
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
52~ What are your hobbies?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
How old are you? Male or Female?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Any that are a turn off?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
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25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
*** Questions About Me ***
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
29- How superstitious are you?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
39~ What are your love languages?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Please share Did you stop?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
If you win, what will you make them do?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?